PREP: Well I was thinkin a little bit, and here is an idea which u hopefully don't mind
KiTTiEKoRn118: ok
PREP: well see the way u dress, well most people think it's weird, now if u wanna be popular and have many friends....do u?
KiTTiEKoRn118: no
PREP: oh, u don't wanna be popular or at least have many friends
KiTTiEKoRn118: no
KiTTiEKoRn118: i dont like people...
PREP: Well maybe thats a way of defense system u build up, they don't like me, i don't like them
PREP: keeps all the feelings kind of out the whole situation
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea....
PREP: cause believe me there are nice people
KiTTiEKoRn118: so what r u trying to say?
PREP: ok. don't be mad, its just an suggestion alright
PREP: Why don't u change ur style of clothing, cause u are definetly pretty, and pretty girls always have friends. like some sort of new image, u know
PREP: cause if u walk down the hallway of ur school in a mini skirt, and tanktop u know, I think that u would definetly be wanted by a lot of guys in this school
KiTTiEKoRn118: i dont want to change my style i like it and im not going to change for anyone thats their problem if they dont like me i could care less .. and i dont want a new image and i dont want to be like everyone else and i dont want to be watned for what i look like and i want people to like me for my personality
PREP: yes, I understand that
PREP: but in order to get to those people that like u for ur personality.... did u ever think of first impression
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea
PREP: maybe really nice people are just scared or intiminated by the way u look
KiTTiEKoRn118: and if they dont like me because of what i look like then that means they r just stuck up and i dont want to like anyone like that
PREP: and first impression is like the biggest thing in order to get friends
PREP: yes, but look. Once u know them and they know u, then u might like them and they u for ur personality
KiTTiEKoRn118: i have enough friends that like me for me
KiTTiEKoRn118: its not my fault i dont care what people look like, its them that do and cant except people for what they look like
PREP: i'm sure u do. but didn't u say u hate school and that ur name is loser
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea..
PREP: well I wouldn't put up with that, u know
KiTTiEKoRn118: there is different ways of dealing with things than just chaning yourself to make other people happy
PREP: cause u are a great person and I'm sure a lot of people would wanna be ur friend once they actually get to know u
PREP: and in order for them to get to know u, they need a first impression
KiTTiEKoRn118: theyve had their first impression
KiTTiEKoRn118: and if they dont like it then thats their problem
KiTTiEKoRn118: thats they way i am
PREP: alright, I admire u for ur selfrespect, not a lot of people have that, I know I don't
KiTTiEKoRn118: o
PREP: well its just most people I know do anything to be popular
KiTTiEKoRn118: i dont..
PREP: thats kewl
PREP: u know
KiTTiEKoRn118: popularity is nothing if they dont like u for yourself
PREP: yes, but u don't get my point
PREP: some will like u once they get to know u, for urself
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea and they way i dress is a big part of myself
PREP: no, only first impression
PREP: which is a big part of makin friends
PREP: that last maybe or maybe not
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea,but if first impression is a big part of making friends then when they see me they have to see how i dress and if they dont like how i dress then that means they are stuck up and they dont like things that arnt normal so then they wouldnt like me
PREP: ok. can i ask u another question
KiTTiEKoRn118: and if they see me wearing some tight slutty preppy clothes they will think im something im not and thats just not kool
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea
PREP: be honest I won't take it personal, What do u think of me
PREP: honestly
KiTTiEKoRn118: i dont understand u
PREP: just please answer the question
KiTTiEKoRn118: i did
PREP: What do u think about me
KiTTiEKoRn118: i think that u want everyone to be the sae
KiTTiEKoRn118: same*
KiTTiEKoRn118: and u think everything would be fine if people all looked the same
KiTTiEKoRn118: but looks arent everything
KiTTiEKoRn118: looks dont make a person
PREP: do u think i'm stuck up, or nice or friendly or pathetic?
PREP: i mean
KiTTiEKoRn118: u were nice when i first talked to u a couple days ago
KiTTiEKoRn118: cuz u just talked
KiTTiEKoRn118: but now u are trying to change me
KiTTiEKoRn118: and thats just stupid
PREP: no I'm tryin to help
PREP: seriously
KiTTiEKoRn118: well its not gonna help if i just change myself to please the world
PREP: i know
PREP: my gf just called she has like a problem
PREP: and i still typed to u
KiTTiEKoRn118: ok
KiTTiEKoRn118: whats ur gfs problem
PREP: so she was like, u know what why don't u keep typin to ur buddies
PREP: and not talk to me
PREP: so I gtg call her back now
PREP: i'm sorry
KiTTiEKoRn118: its ok
KiTTiEKoRn118: bye
PREP: can we talk later
PREP: bye
KiTTiEKoRn118: yea we can talk later if u want to just talk and not tell me how to dress
KiTTiEKoRn118: because i dont care what people think of me |